Why do you need to call him? You have legal and physical custody of your daughter, he has supervised visits. You do not have to tell him where you are going or what you are doing regardign supervision of your daughter. I have joint legal custody and primary physical custody of my children. I have no obligation to inform my X about their supervision when they are with me, and he does not have any obligation to me when they are with him. The only time it would be an issue is if either of us were putting the kids in danger, and the only way we could even find out is if the kids said anything, or we spied on each other. I don't think that my X has always provided proper supervision for the kids, but it really isn't my business, until I have reasonable belief that they are in danger. You have no obligation to say anything to your X unless it is part of your legal agreement.
"You can't stop the waves, but you can learn to surf." Jon Kabat-Zinn
