If you are just friends stick to making cookies and forget the striptease.
Sorry, I just had to throw that out there. (Long story.)
Maybe you should have combined the two?! use the stage name Gingersnap.
Sorry, couldn't help myself. Glad you are doing OK.
Cheers
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.
use the stage name Gingersnap. 
