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[flowmom]

- I know what type of women I am attracted too. Tall, athletic, blond or auburn hair.

So you would know if you're attracted to a woman based on a photograph? Really?

IMO, part of the problem that men have with approaching women is that they often don't have the self-awareness to know what they truly enjoy about themselves and about women. If you know what you really enjoy in women, you will know when you see it and you will be able to relax and be your wonderful self. If you are interacting with women on a two-dimensional basis, you will feel totally uncomfortable because you are not responding to more than what would be encompassed in a police description of that woman.

I just aim to interact. And perhaps move on, perhaps not. A friend recently told me don't try to impress. Just enjoy. Also told me don't just talk, be like a reporter and interview. Ask questions. People love to talk about themselves and like to think that someone is really interested. Sounds like pure common sense.

Ladies, you're thoughts on this?

See purple above.