DW, It sounds like you are dealing with this as best you can and it will get better with time. When I was angry with my W and had to be around her I would avoid the eye contact also. It made the interaction less emotional.
"Acceptance" of the situation doesn't mean you condone it. You are just not going to let your judgements spark those emotions.
BTW did the Bob Marley thing again this morning.
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Expose yourself to your deepest fear; after that, fear has no power, and the fear of freedom shrinks and vanishes. You are free.
