It sounds like she is crashing and burning. This is a case where al-anon would probably have the best advice, but it seems like a "get out of the way" kind of situation. It must be so hard to watch, but really you're a bystander when it comes to her drinking.
Originally Posted By: Awoken
I like the Byron Katie quote, and remember you read her books. Are they working good for you?
Doing The Work is actually one of the few things that seems to bring me peace for a few hours and relieves me from the mental torture of trying to fix my sitch in my head.
me: 42 | STBXH: 41 | T: 18 | M: 10 | separation: Jan 3, 2010 | they deserve better: S7 & D4 current thread: http://tinyurl.com/3y8sxcp .: first breathe, then heal, then start LIVING :.
