flowmom, Thanks for the input. I will wait until I finish reading DR before doing anything. I'm sure she is/has felt alone and I have accepted my part in making her feel that way, but I don't feel the time is right to be "romantic" yet. Not after the advise given to me here and some other things that have happened. Again, I will read the DR book, continue trying things,no pursuing, not being cold, doing what works!
BTW, my original thread and story are under-waw mood swings-I started a new thread not understanding how this all works. Sorry to all for the confusion.
