DW,

No worries on the "happily" thing I didn't take that the wrong way at all. Hell my W may have gotten engaged over the weekend for all I know.

I have a question for you. What do you know about this OM? I know a little about my W' OM's(and there may be more)one is divorced and the other is in the process of D. I have to believe that it is going to be a tall order for my W to find a man who is going to be interested in a long term arrangement with a woman in her late 40's with young twins. This scenario will work against me as well when the time comes to start looking at OW. The playing field has to be awfully small under these conditions.

I broke a rule of mine yesterday and popped into my W's FB page. She commented to someone that she is "Enjoying my life...Looking forward to what lies ahead!" As far as I can tell all she does these days is exercise, spend money, text message, talk on the phone and FB. I guess being unemployed and destroying your financial future is enjoying life. Go figure.

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At some point in time the show will end and reality will hit.

I have to believe this will occur and it will be interesting to see what the fall out will be. I want to be as far from the debris field as possible when she crashes to earth (if she does at all).
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CLV, the drinking thing is great. Way to go. Wish I could say the same.

Thanks DW. I'm pretty proud of it. I was talking to my "Best Man" yesterday and he mentioned that he hasn't gone that long with out a drink since he was 15 and the same is true for me. I've shut it down for lent a few times over the years but this is a personal best.

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Have a great day!

You do the same man!


M48/W47
M15/T22
S3
D3
In House Separation 10/06/09
W files for D 10/16/09
OM1 discovered 10/28/09 (PA)
OM2 in mix early Jan.
W moved out 1/26/10
In Mediation (Settlement in prep)