My pastor is doing a series on about Christian World View and truly only 8 - 9 % of Christians have a Biblical view, meaning that is the percentage that look to the Bible when making life decisions. The sad part is all the churches out there doing second and 3rd marriages for the adultreous spouses. Although I heard they usually lie when questioned about why their marriage ended.
The hardest part is our kids and what this is teaching them....I think my boys know my X doesnt really rely on God for his direction. Its just so hard when the world is so hard and you want your family to be a safe place for you kids.....and divorce creates such a mess. We can only do the best we can to uphold the values and behaviours we want modeled to our kids and leave the rest with God.
I mean you H and OW even are living together...???? and playing that game...althoug really what does etting married mean to these kind of people??? the bible says if you leave your spouse and remarry another you are committing adultrey. I have heard people actually say yes, but then you ask to be forgiven....I am like what??????? ok Dear God I stole this mans wife and I am marrying her and by the way dumping my faithful wife of 22 years. Please God forgive me, all is good now????? I cant even say it without laughing......I guess confess your sin is good but the turn from it is twisted becuase they think if they marry they arent sinning ...but the bible is clear it says if you Marry after divorcing for any reason other than unfaithfullness you are committin adultrey....( then add a spouse wh you left who wanted to reconcile and do what ever to save the family -- and also a real decent person and loving wife and Mom..... Oh well like isnt fair I guess thats a lesson we can pass on to our kids...
