Thanks for stopping by. My W has not yet gone to that extreme. One is really her's from before our R, the second is one she found just after we M. Then there's mine from before our R.
She pretty much comes to see them when she knows I'm at work. Hasn't brought any food over or anything like that. She'll even text comments like- "are you taking care of them, their coats are a mess like they aren't being petted." Of course it's winter even dowwn in S FL this year.
Cutter- I agree- lesson learned, less is more, slow is fast...W texted me that she just left the house. She thanked me for forwarding an update about my Uncle.
So bizzare- complete disregard for everything else, then a glimpse of a person w/ a soul.
Reminds me of the link you gave me Cutter- I will not reply to anything anymore b/c its turning my power over and allowing me to be roped.