Actually Lucky, I do know quite a bit about ADD and ADHD because of being a teacher, and what you are saying is completely true. I am not used to the effects on adulthood, but that is definitely a possibility. H does have money, but not tons. He tries to live within his paycheck and not go into savings at all so when he says he has no money...he just doesn't want to touch savings, which is good, but he also drives me nuts with when we would have extra bills not touching savings is not possible.
Also H has said before he thought he was ADHD so I will definitely bring it up because if he is and he is willing to get some therapy for it, it could clear up a lot of his issues. He also feels he is autistic (I think that is just in his head), but also a reason why he can't commit or get too close to just one person. Definitely something to bring up at some point very soon. Maybe tomorrow before we get to his parents.
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