Libby you're not going to like this, but I hope you'll listen.
I've been where you are numerous times throughout this. Right now all this means very little. This is about his issues and until he resolves them, nothing will change. Just because the OW seems like she may be exiting the picture does not mean anything will change. Can it? Yes it's possible, but the OW is nothing, this is all about HIM and HIS ISSUES.
Do absolutley nothing different, think abosolutely nothing different. Carry on like you have been. Nothing changes until he changes inside.
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How do I play this. His replay seems to be disappearing. He remains in depression but I believe has reached rock bottom. He has also withdrawn over the past 3 weeks but appears to be creeping out again.
Please stop....hit the brakes with this stuff. You don't "play" anything around here. You can't possibly tell what his rock bottom is. I may sound harsh and I'm sorry if I do, but you need to hear this.
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Any advice on how I need to play this would be very helpful.
You do NOTHING different. You don't "play' anything. This is all about HIM.
Your focus and thought process NEED to be all on YOU.
Please stay the course, you are setting yourself up here.
