Wow grace thanks for responding. Your ex and OW sound so much like mine. My ex pretends he is a devout Christian man. OW also talks to my children about "good Christian values", can you imagine? I have to fight my anger daily and pray and pray.

They are pretenders in this crazy world. What bothers me so much is that they are so good at it. People believe that he is a wonderful man.

He has never shown any real remorse and I don't think I will ever get any.

Me: 46 H:44
Together: 25 years
Married: 20 years
Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07
OW: EA began 2005
PA began end of 2006
3 children,20, 16, 6
ex asked for forgiveness
01/16/11