Looking for help with WAW

[mza8]

maynard, yes, I feel like I have done well so far with NC. Not sure if it's showing any benefits yet with W but I know it's early yet. NC has helped me in the meantime to not be obsessed on my sitch. Yes, PI is expensive. She's driving one of her sister's car now so I can't do GPS although that's a good idea. Still unsure if I should be personable at meeting or keep it strictly business. I will be nice either way, just don't know if I should make some small talk...no R talk though, I know.

Coach, great to have you stop by and give advice on my sitch, thank you. I have really gotten my act together. In addition to my second job, I have a third job that I will be starting this spring. I took a course to referee youth soccer games last month. I'll be refereeing games soon which will be fun and is some extra money. I have spoken with a L and feel comfortable about speaking intelligently at meeting this weekend with W on what I am entitled to. I will stand my ground. W might get upset but I won't let that worry me. I hope at some point that the things and changes I am doing will make me attractive to my W again. I continue to do this for me.

Thank you for the book suggestion. I'll pick up a copy.