It is now 10:20 AM and I just returned from my L's office. He says this could get sticky since my H is leaving for deployment soon. He suggested that I feel the waters and don't bring up the conversation of D, but if he brings up matters relating to "Property Disposition", then I should be calm and just say, "can we talk about that later, taxes are the priority today."
He says my H's reaction may indicate how is feeling about everything. Bad reaction to me saying, "can we talk about that later," that may indicate that he wants to be in control and I should not let him. A positive reaction may be that he is willing to delay the conversation allowing for us to spend time together eliminating the possibility of an arguement.
L also indicated that I need to protect myself and suggested that I hire a PI to confirm the EA/PA. Can anything good come of this? I don't want to pi$$ the H off.
The H should arrive by 11:30. I bought salad fixings for lunch, but I am not sure if I suggest lunch. But he is a big eater and he has always enjoyed my cooking (i.e. that is another blame in my direction - HIS weight gain).
I am anxious.. I need to breathe....I should listen to the meditation CD to get me grounded before he arrives...
Wish me luck!!!
OLD THREAD-http://tinyurl.com/y98nuty Me 44 H 51 T 15 yrs M 9+ yrs No Kids "You may be deceived if you trust too much, but you will live in torment unless you trust enough."
