- good job on getting your act together and working two jobs, a wife needs financial stability
- She's trying to bully you, stand up to her. Lead on the money discussions. Talk to a L about what is legally hers and yours at this point.
- You will be attractive to her when you are in charge of yourself.
You can handle it.
Cheers
ps A great book about dealing with depressive thougths is Learned Optimism by Martin Seligman.
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.