Is there hope?

[chatterbug]

That is why they are called a Walk Away.

Dogs can be good GAL. And they keep you active. And you can flirt with them as well when your out at the park.

And dogs show unconditional love.

Something you need right now. Trust me on being alone in the house. The dogs will keep you good company.

Perhaps you should address this as an opportunity instead of a burden. One where you show your strength of character. Keep the bills on all the dog food etc...

Then a future conversation can be about the following :

Tell her that the dogs are safe and in a good environment and can remain. But. She needs to start being more responsible to the dogs by purchasing the dog food. And bringing it over on her next visit. Or she has a choice. Stop visiting the dogs or take them.
One or the other.
If you can handle it. Work in paying half. And carry the stuff in from her car.
2 acts of service from you. 2 acts of service from her. Its absolutely nothing in the grand scheme of things.... Or is it. Create a safe environment with the dogs. One where she knows she can go to with you. And one you can use to change topics when you need to retreat. Its a safety valve for both of you. One you set up. And offer freely.



Your pets are the only thing you have to keep a good conversation with her. Do not allow everything else to affect this one relationship between the two of you that can remain civil.