mza8- it seems like you've done well w/ the NC and not pursuing. There is little way of really knowing what's going on w/ your W. The PI is a good idea, but they are expensive. A GPS for the car is a thought I suppose.
I doubt that many if any of her friends would know about an A. She would likely keep it secret.
As for the meet- PMA and keep light. Don't know about the hug though. I'd like to see someone else answer b/c I am officially clueless when it comes to that stuff.
