NO DARN D TONITE EITHER, just before I got on here, I texted her love you.
....Good. Just show her love. We know that trying to control her decisions isn't working...let her choose where to be.
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isn't enabling me to show that I can be a rock, all though my attitude in other areas is lacking
Why do you need you wife's help being the man and father you ant to be?
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What she is doing right now is NOMB and I don't want to know about it either.
That mind set will get you places!
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I did put my ring back on.
This is my reason, and it's my reason only that I put the ring back on.
Good as long as it is for YOU and not for vindication or manipulation.
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I am letting her go in that, I have not contacted her.I am definately not going to give an opinion and I'm documenting D stuff and her not dropping D off, but I'm not starting a fight about it, either. It bothers me, but I don't have any control on what those two are doing. It hurts me, but I got no control.You know seperated the person from the behavior and just trying to stay out of the way.
You have no control over them....the more you realize it the better off you will be. Keep the documenting up though....there is a business side to all of this and you do need to be prepared.
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Right now she "does not want to be married," EA ok having that no doubt, but it's more the stress of family, debt, work, and she's wanting to find herself or that was the reason last summer.
As the seasons change so will the reasons...out of your control.
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I'm hurting,I always put her first and still am.
So when are you going to finally change that?
Forgiveness is a gift to yourself, No expectations, hope, or want helps you, looking inside and addressing those issues fix's you. What do you want for yourself?
