Thanks RW and lea74-what I am afraid of is that H knows that she is telling people and is ok with it! Now, to find the time to have that conversation with him!

My SIL wants to take the kids to do something fun Friday night. Since I have not heard from H all week and don't know if he has plans to take the kids or if he is working OT I told her yes. This is something else he and I need to discuss AGAIN as he is slacking off in the parent department. Part of it is his work schedule but he could still call the kids and talk to them and see how their day is going. Out of sight, out of mind?

M48 H53
M16 T18
S16 D13
SS30
H drops bomb PA/8-30-09
H leaves 12-30-09
D filed by H 2-10
H asks to come home 4-11
Piecing