You have to get your "tubes" back on that one...he ain't gonna get her! Period.
I am thinkin she isn't worried that he'll get ALL custody, it's when he gets unsupervised and just plain more custody overall. or maybe I'm wrong on that.
I would agree, that for him to get full custody would be absurd, but for him to get partial custody, or even half, is not...(when the time comes that he can have unsupervised, that is)
so SO2, what did you reply to him when he said should he go or not?
Yes..It is that ST. I don't worry about full custody. I worry that he will get unsupervised time with her eventually. Besides the immoral, disgusting way he lives his life, I worry about the drinking when he would have her.
I didn't say anything. I wanted to, but didn't. I just sorta looked at him. I wanted to tell him that he caused some of this distance with his D. That he needs to stop being such a victim. Then I remembered it wasn't my place to preach to him anymore...hes got MGF stroking his ego now. The things I would say would just make him mad.
Me: 46 FWS: 36 Married and Divorced 4/07, Pregnant 7/07,False R 7/07 Baby Girl born 3/08 Kicked him out because OW: 7/08 5/10 He realized what he had and lost. Moved home! REMARRIED 3/14/11!!