Well....I lost part of my post I submitted. Here's the rest.

I don't know that that is the best step in your stitch. I do believe she likes pretending the two of you are not M and she likes you romancing her. You might do more from that angle.....but I don't know. I don't disagree about moving back in. I do believe all hell will break loose when you do, but the decision is up to you. I just believe you need to have your facts & information and be prepared. Be absolutely sure of what you want b/c you will have to go back fully armed for war.


It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!