Thanks Cutter- I do feel I can take care of them, but I also feel like I'm being a door mat- W has no plans to come back, is it right for me to have to take care of her dogs to simplify her life and her choices?
This is the line I have a hard time walking. Naturally, I love the dogs- I would never take them to the pound.
I feel like by taking care of them for her- I know I'm doing the right thing, but she may view it as me being her b*&ch- I have done that for too long now.
Similarly, making her take responsibility may be perceived as me being spiteful. I told her that since she's dating, there is no reason I should have to take care of her dogs- naturally she denies.
