Still In Limbo Land,Not Sure What To Do

[HHIF]

I'm not pursuing and not questioning and acting jealous or controlling.I'm working on doing my own thing more and become less dependent on her.
Before I never did anything on my own,no hobbies or hanging out with friends,she was the only one I really spent time with and when she wanted to do things like a girls night out it would bother me,now it doesn't because I am learning to be more independent and not clingy like I was before.I try to stay upbeat and have fun instead of sitting around and thinking about her all the time.