The cat died several months ago from heart trouble. Irony.
I had to drop this board. Wanted to explain, at least to you. But there is no pm option.
Your advice is all good. I'm jumping into the shower now. He didn't give a time, just said he'd come before I leave for work, which is 10.30. If I'm flirtatious won't he think he can have me without jumping thru hoops? I'll try to strike a balance. I'm pre-planning some conversation in hopes that some unexpected surprise will not drop out of my mouth.