It is good that you are still going to go. Talking to the C without H around is probably better so you can make sure when H does hear how you are feeling that it is in a constructive way that is not going to push him away. He has definitely made some progress so you don't want to stop that by making him feel worthless again.

Have a good day and hopefully you can think of something fun to do for you!


Me29 S3
H left 4/1/09
I file 8/2/10
Divorce final 5/17/11
1st http://www.tinyurl.com/25lhu52
2nd http://www.tinyurl.com/2c35ueg
3rd http://www.tinyurl.com/322yk89