crushed: surely you jest. No one is causing nsw more pain than himself but he is too addicted to the self-pity train to even want to get off, much less constructively try. Ergo, the suffering, while indeed optional, will not stop because he is fueling it constantly.

MrBond, and Gardener, as with others including myself, would find a much warmer response from nsw if we ignore good sense and facts, and feed him what he thinks is validation.

Nsw, nobody here would think adulterers are nice. Many HATE predators, whom I personally find to be "disgusting". That (and the blame game), however, has nothing to do with trying to be a better person for yourself.


Me 42
W 39
Married: 11 Jan 1998, T: Since 1992
First Bomb: Sep 2007
Confirmed A/OM: 4 Nov 2007
Kids: D10, S5
Reconciled and together again after (alot of) time and heartbreak.
3rd kid, S, born 2 Jan 2010.