GH31, that's the million dollar question right now. I really wish I knew for sure. I have done my own investigation and I cannot find any signs of an A. I've also spoken to her family and friends and they all say there is no A. I know not to necessarily believe them and my W could be hiding it from them too.

Other than hiring a PI, how else can I investigate further to check if there is an A? Since we are separated I don't have access to her computer to install a keylogger. I know Puppy is pretty good with this stuff and maybe he can chime in with some suggestions.

I listened to her voice again and it really upset me when she said she wants to me to pay for the car insurance before she will meet. I have no problem paying for my portion of the bills but the way she said it pissed me off. I will just bit my lip on that comment.


M 38
WAW 36
Together 19 years
Married 12 years
Bomb/Separated Oct. 09
I love my wife
Sitch