My wife says she isn't in love with me anymore. That she doesn't want to work on our marriage because she doesn't have the energy. And there is also OM in her life now that she feels like she is "falling" for him. Am I retarded to want to keep trying not just because of me but because I don't want my kids to grow up in a divorced family.
She has moved out and for the life of me I know she is going to be spending a lot of time with this OM. It worries me because if they do become serious and she does move in with this guy I feel like she is going to take my kids because she is now on her own two feet(even though she isn't because she is now dependent on this OM) I don't know why but her and the OM doesn't bother me (as much as it did) I just want to be able to move on with out the worry of her coming to the house and packing up my kids and now me becoming a weekend dad.
I have completely stopped talking about her R with the OM in fact I noticed once i resolved to do it my stomach isn't in knots anymore.
Anyone with advice? Do I keep my hopes up? Or do I just let it go? Is it possible to keep my hopes up and work on me at the same time?
I like all this empty space because i can now type out things that are important.
Like: D7 S2 starting swimming lessons on 3/30
"Readily will I display the intestinal fortidue required to fight on..."
