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When I do move back in, and let's say she actually lives there for more than 15 mins after I'm back, am I then supposed to detach from her?


Yes.

You move home and make it as difficult as possible for her to pursure her affair without pusuing, begging, pleading, trying to straighten her out etc.

You simply move home and say "I've decided to move home. If you wish to pursue an affair, it will not be conducted from or in this apartment".

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I saw my IC tonight and told her my plans to move back. She spent about 10 min trying to convince me not to.


How many marriges has this IC saved in her professional career?

Does she specialise in saving marriages?


Me: 46
W: 46
T: 23
M: 20
DS12
DD11
DS5

W left: 01/28/08
Discovered OM: 02/26/08
W back for 9 days: 04/08
W returned 05/21/08
EA/PA - 01/08-07/09
W's MLC 2008-2014 (realised this much later)