So you've chosen to RE-act to everything rather than be PRO-active. Basically that means that she dictates what happens for YOU.


That's not being a man.


You want her to be responsible for all YOUR problems. Sorry, you don't get to do that. YOU are responsible for YOUR condition. Regardless of what she has done or is doing, YOU are responsible for YOUR condition.


Quit being her parent ans start being her husband.


I'd rather have you going all hardcore telling her to get out, than have you sneaking around behind her back, cutting off her internet and making it look like a computer problem, and not being man enough to just walk up to her and tell her that it's going to stop.



You're not learning anything here.


This is still about her.


THAT should concern you.


If you don't do anything else during this crappy time, you could at least become a better person, a better man.



I see the same "base every decision and action on my wife" man that first posted here. Take a look down....yeah, down "there"....it's time to find your nuts again.



Oh, and as for the flirting girl deal... it always pisses me off when someone gets on here and bitches about a cheating spouse, then in the next breath starts talking about some hotty that they'd like to pursue.



Could we deal with one crisis at a time at least?



MAN T F UP.....


Bill

Last edited by Bworl; 02/18/10 11:03 AM.
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