Well done on turning it round, stopping his baits in his tracks is going to take practise hun so dont beat yourself up tomorrow is always another day and even though you blew it, its how you pick things up and move forward.. like me having to ask to kiss and make up the other day when H's spending money on petrol got to me!
Also well done for getting your lunch request in, that was very sneakily done.
H does seem to be lacking in social skills, as you know my H is in IT although not a geek, but Im in IT and have worked with the geek brigade, love the txting him when he ignores you! Its rather ironic that my H also adores the cat, I know it really bugs him when she has a mummys girl day well she isnt daft he left her once and she knows what side her bread is buttered. The cat letter was hilarious..
One thing that jumped out on mean outta your posts was that H had requested that you stop when he asks you to stop.. is that because you have previously suffered from badgering disease or is he using it to shut you down and control you! Might be a good one to add to your MC .. How do I discuss some thing that is important to me when I want to respect H's request to stop but it will need dealing with at some point!
Hope today is better for you hun and its good to hear you laughing at our ideas.
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Once lost but now found and happily married again!