Don't worry about what she says...just watch her actions; as actions speak much louder than words, especially in MLC.

Pay close attention when she speaks, sort the garbage because the truth is in there, but hidden in MLC speak.

They say alot of things and do many others. Worse than children sometimes.

Oh, so she says she's fallen off the face of the earth for awhile, and now she's back, eh? Quite a bit of truth to that.
They always called it being abducted by aliens back in the day when I was here before....I think, because things become so strange, and they act and speak so much like someone you don't know or actually never knew.

Things can change in a blink of an eye....or drag on for what seems like forever. Depends on them; and what issues they face along their journey down through the rabbit hole...I'm thinking of Alice in Wonderland tonight for some reason.


Again, this is your time now..work on yourself, watch her spin in the wind...nothing you can do for her right now except just wait and watch for a period of time.

The biggest question is what do YOU want out of YOUR life; the focus needs to be on YOU. When she went into no man's land, and put you on a path that was not of your own making...it made this about YOU...and you do need to take care of you. Time to take stock of what's there, your needs, and what you would like to do with this time; while you're in-waiting. smile And I don't mean do anything wrong, LOL!! (I re-read that last line and realized it could be taken wrong.) smile


Take care. smile


Last edited by HeartsBlessing; 02/18/10 07:14 AM.
Remember, as each person is different, every MLC/Transition is different..what works for one may not work for another. Most of the time it is trial and error for ALL involved.