Ok I f**ked the whole thing up -= he told me to stop talking or leave and he left.He baited me with some stupid comment that I did not imagine he would say, was unprepared, and I wanted to talk about it. I didn't blow up, however, I calmly wanted to talk. He just couldn't because he's too explosive. Time for me to remember this is his problem.

But the good news is, we turned it around - H called immediately back and said he just is too sick to talk about things now and just let things go. I owned my 50%, validated, and let it go. Damn! I took that bait after going over it in my mind a thousand times tonight how I wasn't going to!

Oh well, next time. Sorry gals, i let you down.


Me: 42
Him: 43

Two divorcees in a relationship