OP-
I agree. Its hard watching D12 be so angry and H not have a clue and get angry back..

H is emailing me a lot more, purely about kids' schedules/separating accounts and such..but its new.

I think I've dropped the rope a bit more. Still sad this is all happening, especially for the girls. Still mad H has rewritten the history of the kids college fund money. Don't see this divorce getting stopped...Almost want it to be done and over now so I can move forward more. Enjoying it not being over b/c the girls still live with me full-time. I can't imagine how I'll get through the change of them living apart from me half the time. It hurts to think about.


M44 H46 T21 Married 16y
D14 D12
Bomb 12/08(EA), (PA/Separation)1/09 to 5/09
Home/MC 5/09 to 12/09
Leaves 12/09 Files for Divorce
Divorce final 6/30/10.