Just want my H back

[pearlharbr]

hhh, you are absolutely on the right path. You sound SO much better now than your down times, I hope you can see that. I know you're annoyed that H is leaving the decision making to you yet again, I understand that from my own experience. You'll know if you want to just get it over with or if you want to wait him out and make him do it.

OTMT, it would be beneficial if you read more than just the last couple posts on a thread before offering advice, especially when the thread is longer. There is a lot of history behind what is currently happening and your comments showed your ignorance of hhh's sitch. IMHO, if you want to be helpful, start by familiarizing yourself with someone's story before offering advice that sounds judgmental. Or at least acknowledge that you aren't familiar with the back story and qualify your comments as coming from this perspective.