Instead of writing up a summary on the Art of Seduction, click on this link and explore the table of contents. There is a description right there! It is divided into 2 sections: seducers and victims, then the seductive process.
I just saw that a concise version of Art of Seduction exists!
Here is a quote from the book about ANTI-SEDUCTION (what NOT to do):
"Seducers draw you in by the focused, individualized attention they pay to you. Anti-seducers are the opposite: insecure, self absorbed, and unable to grasp the psychology of another person, they literally repel. Anti-Seducers have no self awareness and never realize when they are pestering, imposing, talking too much. Root out anti seductive qualities in yourself, and recognize them in others--there is no pleasure or profit in dealing with the Anti-Seducer!"
Also right before the seductive process, it says "Phase one-stirring interest and desire" (plant the seed, walk away...leave them wanting more!)
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me,34 exH,34 S,16 months S:3/31/09-left for OW started DBing 10/09 d final: sometime 10/10 current: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1 met in 2004