feel like giving up - talk to me!

[Gardener]

luv,

I can't fix this all by myself there has to be TWO people working in a marriage.

This is one of the premises - if not the premise - of DR. You Can do it yourself. You must. "It takes one to tango." Reread DR.

And if they can help even the slightest bit - and you don't mind me being presumptuous - take a look at the very few posts of the very few baby steps that I have taken against my NPA recently over in Soaring Solo at Surviving The Big D