What would you do if it was a very good friend who forgot? Maybe act that way? I forget a lot. I tried a computer and PDA, but still, some things just don't get the attention they deserve because I'm sure I'll remember.

Maybe his counselor is saying what you are worried about - that he might not have improved his M skills enough to deal with his own issues. Wishful thinking? Maybe, but don't we need some of it if we want to work it out?

Could you split the day? Maybe he might want to help you move, and then going skating afterward if that is what you want to suggest.

I was dropping off my W for her first IC session today. The kids asked us about kissing. I joked to W that we could kiss for them and show them there's nothing bad about it. My W looked like she was getting ready for a funeral.

Well...she wasn't listening! I'm glad I didn't overreact to that!