Yeah, went to therapy today. I said my peace about the boys; said that we came to therapy because she was going back and forth; said that I clearly would be better off without her.
She said that she hated me, that clearly I still didn't value her needs, that when I called her for V-day it made her both happy and mad, etc.
The the C led us to talk some about our issues with not connecting with intimacy, said, let me throw out a "hot potato" but you guys both clearly don't want to get divorced, would you consider therapy focused on that? Well... we're almost out of time, but you two should digest what we've said today...
Yeah, I'm at the house tonight, ate dinner with the family. W sounds like she wants to lay low for the moment - was kind of an intense session. Seems like they all are.
