gman, I have to catch up on your sitche's last couple of days. In the meantime:
Originally Posted By: gman
is it possible to begin hating someone you love more than anything?
Yes. The opposite of love isn't hate/anger; it's apathy and indifference.
Originally Posted By: gman
or am i just starting to hate the situation?
Yeah, well, there's always that, too wink
Originally Posted By: gman
Originally Posted By: Onthemountaintop
"improve your marriage without talking about it"?
next on my reading list
I'm sure I've told you before, but if not, put The Four Agreements on the top of that list. It's been a daily life-changer for me.

Peace,

Gardener

"My soul, be satisfied with flowers,
With fruit, with weeds even; but gather them
In the one garden you may call your own."
Cyrano deBergerac