Young Couple, WAW, Kids, Individual Problems

[MarkG]

So my mom talked to W today, she talks much more than I do. OM had court 1 state away (7 hour drive) and has to go back for sentencing. Early on before I started DBing I thought his absence would be a perfect time to make a move, but now I know that's not the case. I'm going to imagine she'll be calling me because she's lonely, and I know it's not my job to keep her company.... but what do I do? Do I help her with anything if she asks? Do I have conversations with her if she pushes for them? My guess is don't be rude and ignore or hang up on, but I'm pretty sure I'll be jumping right back in like an addict looking for a fix. Suggestions on limits?