Today has been a whirl wind day. I had to shovel again...and the part to change from tub to shower is not working so I was trying to fix that so now I am sore. Making dinner, folding laundry, giving S a bath...just a lot going on. I called H because I asked him last night about the shower. He said he would buy a new faucet and come over today. I had not heard from him since last night so that is why I called at 5:15. Of course, he didn't answer so I left a message that said I figured he was still at work (our state tests are the first week in March so he is making games and tests to help review with his students so they do well) and that I didn't know if he had gotten anything yet. I told him I had tried to fix it, but it looks broken, and I am scared if we do a fix-it job ourselves it won't be pretty so unless I hear from him soon, I am going to call my dad. He didn't call so I called my dad who came over and confirmed I need a new faucet. He is leaving for TN Friday and said he could come over tomorrow and fix it because he is taking the day off of work. I said H said something about wanting to fix it so my dad said that was fine with him because he doesn't want to step on H's toes if he wants to help.

H did text me finally right before my parents got to the house and said he could go tonight and get the faucet (I thought that is what he already said last night) and I said that is ok because it isn't a huge deal...just baths for me until it is fixed. I then said text me when you are done at work. He did and said "i'm sorry you are upset with me". I said I wasn't really I thought he was upset with me. We talked about his day and he never asked about mine so I just didn't say anything. He asked about pizza on Friday (since he hasn't seen us since Monday), and I said that would be ok with me. I am figuring we won't do anything saturday or Sunday since OW's H will be gone, but maybe he will surprise me...

He did say I love you tonight which he hadn't said since monday so that is good, but definitely less texts than I was getting, but he might be honestly getting stuff done for the iStep. Overall, nothing bad. I am hoping he will text me good night so we will see. Off to a bath then maybe something hot to drink so I can unwind from a long day.


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H left 4/1/09
I file 8/2/10
Divorce final 5/17/11
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