I think the new C will be great. I just have to make it thru til April when she comes back.

In the meantime I have first C, who was really great.

And so you all know, it is thanks to YOU all and your wisdom that I knew this C was weird. "he OUGHT to..." "tell him he CAN'T do such and so..." Uh-huh.

I'm glad you were able to recognize your bad C soon enough before a lot of damage was done.


Me: 44
Him: 42
Together: 23 years; never married
Bomb: August 1, 2009
Affair since May 2009
Walk away; no conversation; no process