It has actually gotten easier to prevent thoughts of what the W is up to whether it is about OM or other issues since she moved out. It still isn't easy but it is easier.
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It is just that she is self medicating with OM
I like this analogy seems well suited to the situation. I'm definitely interested to see what changes when her new lifestyle isn't so new anymore. I view our diverging approaches to singlehood to the classic turtle and hare story.
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BTW, Congrats on the drinking thing. I enjoy a drink once or twice a week now but not like I used to. If I had to guess things like that seem easy compared with dealing with the "waves".
No question. I may have been a bit melodramatic with the waves comment above but staying dry hasn't been even the slighest bit difficult. I orginally planned on 180 days but hell I might take it out further.
I'm off to the see the kids. Have a good evening I'll be in touch.
M48/W47 M15/T22 S3 D3 In House Separation 10/06/09 W files for D 10/16/09 OM1 discovered 10/28/09 (PA) OM2 in mix early Jan. W moved out 1/26/10 In Mediation (Settlement in prep)
