Oh, yeah, FM, I have been hiking, etc. Found meetup.com, which gets social activity groups together. Went on a trail run with 2 cute guys on Sunday (one married, one seemed pretty quick to say..by, see you later, great run). I much much prefer that sort of thing to a "date." But I am throwing myself out there in different ways to see what's what.
Unfortunately, here in the great state of VT, it seems to be about a 3:1 ratio women to men. And all the women are active, good-looking, successful, confident gals. Tough playing field for a 45 year old.
Don't worry, my defenses and guards are up high enough not to get caught up with any weirdos. Remember, I was defensive, reserved and remote with the man I loved! Not about to fall all over or be in a vulnerable spot with an on-line person. Thanks for looking out for me.
Me: 44 Him: 42 Together: 23 years; never married Bomb: August 1, 2009 Affair since May 2009 Walk away; no conversation; no process
