I wish you had more time to find the real you. Not this reactive person...
No offense.
Lost.
You really do not know what IT means?
IT was you and him. Your old marriage...with all its broken parts. The taking for granted, the assumptions, the way you both dealt wwith anger and aggresion the shutting down...the "Fine!"s
Everything.
He has a right to be afraid of IT.
You should be worried about IT...too.
Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis
Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans
Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK