Bond,
Don't get offended by the term "wacky"...to me, it beats saying she's clinically depressed, let alone has been for how long now?

But as I also said, I'm not qualified to assess her medically. Is she seeing a c for her stuff or is it one of those "if you are depressed, leave" types? Is she on medication?

Also, what exactly do you feel you had to work on for yourself, or rather, what was your role in all this to begin with, that you feel would be different now? I'm babbling but trying to ask you, why would your m to her now, be better than before? WHat is diff about you? If this is all about her (and I agree that it's not) then you're stuck. But if you have some issues you have resolved or are being worked on, and then, does she know?

What's your best argument for why things would be better and diff now, than they were before?

Just thinking if we all can't answer that, then we're doing this backwards...
j-


M: 57 H: 60
M: 35 yrs
S30,D28,D19
H off to Alaska 2006
Recon 7/07- 8/08
*2016*
X = "ALASKA 2.0"
GROUND HOG DAY
I File D 10/16
OW
DIV 2/26/2018
X marries OW 5/2016

= CLOSURE 4 ME
Embrace the Change