This board is full of tales of WASs falling to absolute pieces within the first year or two. It's sad.
I thought H was already in pieces
Originally Posted By: newmama
Wow how did I miss the whole night shift problem?? I must have forgot! ANOTHER variable that makes life challenging for you right now!!!
Ooooh, yes. H started shift work right before we got married. He's always had sleep issues, but shiftwork + parenting + small home was a really bad combo for him. For so long, our lifestyle has seemed like a puzzle that we couldn't solve, partly because we couldn't communicate effectively and create a common vision for our shared life.
Last edited by flowmom; 02/18/1012:37 AM.
me: 42 | STBXH: 41 | T: 18 | M: 10 | separation: Jan 3, 2010 | they deserve better: S7 & D4 current thread: http://tinyurl.com/3y8sxcp .: first breathe, then heal, then start LIVING :.
