now...here is the BIGGEST bounce of all...sitting down? if i was Lost b4...im not sure what i am now...
h has been helping build props and stuff for d 9 at school, well yesterday she had the idea to instead of get on the bus and come home...she decided she was going to the school office,she told them she was waiting for her Daddy to get there and she wanted to help HIM since he is always helping her...ok she has a mind of her on so not too out of her realm...worked out ok too for both of them so it turned out ok...
today h is talking to me when i get home from work...says he want to come home, to be a good dad again, good husband and be able to have his family again...however he is afraid "IT "will be like it was b4 so he's not sure what to do...
1st...im not sure what exactly this means 2nd...dont know what "IT" means...he hasnt shared anything except what he blames me for 3rd...dont want him to come home until he is himself...i dont want him to leave again
what the heck do i do or say without freaking him out?
he said that our daughters actions yesterday reminded him of what he has...what he is missing...
could this be real?
i have no idea on how to handle it...
although i think this all started over 3 years ago...he has only been out of the house for 6 1/2 months...
he looked and sounded sincere...just dont know...he has not mentioned ever coming home b4...obviously it has always been the opposite
any input appreciated!
me 39 h 38 kids 9 and 6 h left 8/9/09 loving and devoted wife and mother still going...10 months later...
