Just jumping in here...you got the last big bad news just last month. OF COURSE you're still sad and missing H and all the rest.

Everyone keeps telling me it takes time, and it looks like you haven't had a lot of time to deal with this yet.

We just keep on keeping on, right?


Me: 44
Him: 42
Together: 23 years; never married
Bomb: August 1, 2009
Affair since May 2009
Walk away; no conversation; no process